Saturday 24 February 2018

The Risk

Relationships are one kind of risk. No matter how much you plan, it is still a risk. Sometimes , everything goes well, even when you've found out major turn offs between you and your partner. Whereas, at times someone angel like reveals their true faces to be even worse than a devil. You cannot really say where you will end up in 10 years or 20 years. If you choose a person based on appearance, job, financial background , you must remember that all of this are changeable . Don't look for personality in choosing your partner. Look for their character. Look for their problem solving skills, their intelligence, their decision making ability, their coping skills during stress, their perseverance, frustration tolerance and most importantly their efforts to be with you. The buttery surface of good looks, designer clothes, expensive shoes, furnished penthouse, glittering cars ,it all looks fascinating, but if your core values are different from your partner then it all makes no sense. So, choose wisely!

In a World full of options,
a woman with choices,
Human Potpourri