Birthdays are special. At least for me , I still feel excited when it
comes to my birthday. Though it remind us how each year we are getting
older , it also does remind us about how we have known about the world
more, how we have known people more, how far we have realised who the
real friends are , how far we have gone against all the hurdles and
above all how much more we can opt for , dream for . Yes, life goes on
and so do we. Time never stops for anyone. Not a single one of us. But still we celebrate the passage of time on our birthdays. It gives us an opportunity to cherish 'us'.
Well, if you're thinking about why I'm writing this post today as my
birthday was last month , I should tell you about this College senior of
mine ( who's post pushed me to post this ) . Teesta Di was my senior in bachelor's degree and master's , so ofcourse , it's
a long time now that I know her. Yesterday was he birthday for which
she came up with a lot of exciting Facebook posts , videos since last
few days and we're still counting. No! I didn't bring her into this to
say that I don't like all these. Rather, I loved it. It shows how much
she loves herself , how much she is proud of her being in this world,
how much she feels good about her existence. Not because it's she . Not
because it's about a dear senior. But just because, the way she is
showing excitement about her birthday, which I think is totally okay.
These days, I hear from a lot of people that they don't even remember their birthdays until somebody wishes them. Even I have Friends who does the same, lacking the excitement about their birthdays. They treat it like , it's just another day. I've heard people saying things like ' what's so exciting about birthday ? ' , ' what's the need for us to tell others about our birthdays ' , 'no body even cares when my birthday is , then why should I care ' and what not. Now , tell me, if you , yourself don't be happy about your existence , about the day when you were born , then how can you expect others to do that for you?
N.B. - Loving yourself for who you are and being a narcissist is two different things. So, do reflect before you judge anyone. And, in case it's about narcissists , then, don't you think we all are that to some extent??
With a huge amount of selflove,
Human Potpourri
These days, I hear from a lot of people that they don't even remember their birthdays until somebody wishes them. Even I have Friends who does the same, lacking the excitement about their birthdays. They treat it like , it's just another day. I've heard people saying things like ' what's so exciting about birthday ? ' , ' what's the need for us to tell others about our birthdays ' , 'no body even cares when my birthday is , then why should I care ' and what not. Now , tell me, if you , yourself don't be happy about your existence , about the day when you were born , then how can you expect others to do that for you?
N.B. - Loving yourself for who you are and being a narcissist is two different things. So, do reflect before you judge anyone. And, in case it's about narcissists , then, don't you think we all are that to some extent??
With a huge amount of selflove,
Human Potpourri
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